Portobello Road wine bars, Westbourne Grove terraces and cosy pubs. A BUDMO evening around Notting Hill: one verified person, one vetted venue a short walk away, one drink or a coffee, 18:00–22:30.
Early, short, walkable. Verified people, vetted venues, live-location share and a discreet exit button.
Tonight or later this week. One tap marks you as not drinking — it never changes who you meet.
One verified person (or a table of 4–6) and a vetted partner venue near you. No "where shall we go".
A small deposit reserves the table and becomes venue credit when you check in — coffee, 0.0 or a spritz, your call.
Afterwards you both privately say if you'd meet again. If you both would, we set the next one.
4 venues in conversation around Notting Hill — cocktail bar, wine bar. Names announced as they sign.
Short answers.
No. BUDMO is friendship-first and open to where it goes. You meet one new person (or a small table) over one drink or a coffee in a vetted venue. Nothing about it is a date unless you both later decide it is.
We pick the venue closest to where you'll both be. Choosing Notting Hill as your area tells the matcher where to look first.
We open one city at a time and only move on when a city works — people show up, meet again and feel safe. Join the waitlist and we'll message you the day it opens; waitlist members get the first invitations.
No. One tap marks you as not drinking and it never changes who you meet. Every partner venue keeps a quality non-alcoholic option on the menu at a fair price — coffee, 0.0 beer or a proper mocktail.
Everyone is ID- and selfie-verified and 18+ (21+ where the law requires). Venues are vetted partners. You get QR check-in, live-location share with a friend, a discreet exit button, women-only tables and a report/block that a human reviews within 24 hours.
Joining the waitlist is free. A small refundable deposit holds your seat for each meeting and becomes venue credit when you check in — you spend it at the venue on anything you like. No subscription, no digital purchases.
Same waitlist, same evenings — we pick the venue closest to where you'll both be.